"Am an older guy. I have two kids with a younger woman (28) that I have had lots of problems with. We have had to fight for custody for the last 4 years and she hates that I want to raise our sons.
We have been on and off for the last 5 years. She left me because she said am old, bald, have two older daughters, etc. Exactly two years ago, we broke up because she went back with her ex. That relationship failed quickly. Then she picked another guy immediately and lived with him for about a year and that one ended badly too. While with these men, she was meaner to me than I can ever explain here. What upset me is that she was denying me the kids and teaching them that the boyfriends were their dads. She was telling the kids to call each of them dad and could tease me about it.
She has been communicating with me a lot lately and our babysitter had warned me to be on the lookout; she wants to move in with me because life has become impossible for her. The reason she has been talking to me is to lie to me, make it look like she really wants a relationship with me and states that she wants to raise our kids together. She has no clue that I have not forgotten how she always gets back with me when life has beaten her up away from me, that two months ago, she got fired from a job I helped her get 5 years ago, and that she most likely has no money and about to lose another apt lease. She is in nursing school and about to finish so she just wants get me to help her through the hard times and so disguises the whole effort to look genuine. If I take her back, she will run again as soon as she graduates and gets a decent job.
What has her p***** is the fact that, while digging around to see what I have been up to, I told her I have dated several women and I am serious with one, who has seen our kids twice since in the last 9 months. Last weekend, the kids told her, in front of a group of women, that we both went to my gf apt and I hugged and kissed her. She text me very mad about that She is upset because of a woman she knows nothing about, so she says mean things about her and her race and age (new girlfriend is 4 years older than I), says I should not take our sons around the new woman (that she is only a sugar mommy because she buys me stuff) when she has living with men and the kids herself!
Though I was hoping to consider thinking about working to better out relationship, and try to get along, I realized she is still impossible. I was mean to her myself and told her that the new woman has been the best I have had my whole life (true) and if she wants to be with me, she has to be better than her(no way). She got upset because I compared her to an “older wrinkled woman”. She had sent me a few pictures of her p**** earlier, so she asked me to go compare her p**** with that of my gf and see which one looks better. I told her the new gf bought me a washer and dryer this weekend (I was illustrating to her how peaceful & comfortable new gf wants my life to be) and that drove her off the edge. I heard she told our babysitter that if she had a key she would come over to my apt and destroy them. When I text her about the women, she told me she wanted to throw her Iphone and break it into pieces, because I gave her TMI. Why insist on info she knows she can’t handle or does not want to hear?
I am not sure why she is p*****, she has been f****** men and bragging to me about how good they were and now she can’t handle the fact that I have a woman who treats me exceptionally nice and genuinely cares about me as a person and all my children. Sorry this is so long, I just don’t understand some women."