"My wife took a job at a local Army hospital and mentioned there were many black men that worked there. Many of them relocated here because of the military. She mentioned they were all in good shape and many of them divorced. She also told me they flirt with her all day. I'm not blind and I see that's she's attractive, tall, blond and in good shape. It didn't worry me until she started doing little things like getting a personal trainer whose also black and wearing skirts to work, which is something she never did. Lately, she's also wanted to go out more. I'm not sure if I'm reading too much into this or if it's only a matter of time before one of her coworkers manages to seduce her. Even when we have sex, she's asked me to be rougher with her. I don't know what to make of it. Any answers would help."