"I hate people who always say "don't compare yourself to others" or "don't feel that way" "you should consider her feelings" does she consider my feelings or stresses? no! so why should I care that she is a mother, that doesn't make her stresses more important then my stresses. its natural to compare. I will type back to them what they said to me and see how they like it. its a normal human emotion to want love and marriage, they have no prototype on that emotion. I know I am fat from medications and health problems but I think like LL and bp. "