"I wear lingerie
I'm a happily married early 40s guy. I adore my wife and our kids.
I have a secret that I wish I could share with her but I can't do it. I love wearing women's lingerie. Right now I'm at work with hi-viz and steel toe cap boots on but underneath I have a black lace g string and sheer lace top hold up stockings.
It feels so good I find myself wearing these things more and more.
I have hinted at my wife but she shuts it down and won't engage the conversation. She wears sexy lingerie sometimes and we have great sex when she does. If we were both dressed the same it would be mind blowing for me!
How do I bring this up to her without her freaking out or how do I stop?