"Hi, I have been married to my wife for 10 years. I love her and other women do not interest me. Recently went to the beach and I caught her looking at this guy sunbathing with just a pair of trunks on. It wad so obvious she was staring straight at the bulge in his trunks. But instead of being angry, it really excited me and turned me on a little. Should I have been pissed off ?