From reddit: I'm in a loveless marriage, and my wife suggested I have an affair.
"Married for 5 years, with a 3 year old child, we have lost the spark. I have suggested couple counselling , but she does not want to discuss our issues with a stranger. That in itself is strange as she discusses our private stuff with almost every one of her friends. Things came to a head recently, and I told her I feel neglected, ignored and lonel..."