From reddit: I've realized I've normalized the abuse I experienced by turning it into a kink
"It's difficult to even anonymously share what happened to me, there's a lot of shame and frankly if I pretend it didn't happen it doesn't have to hurt.
My boyfriend and I have been talking about fantasies and what we'd like to do. I want him to be rough only because its the opposite of the feigned kindess of someone who abused me. I've been open t..."