From reddit: I'm 35 and I feel like I'm only just starting my life.
"I'm just now getting over a bit of a bad spot (mild understatement). It took me a very long time to admit to myself that I wasn't doing so well and a hell of a lot longer before I asked for help. Because you know, what sort of man needs to ask for help?
I've hardly dated, my job isn't worth mentioning and I've got no assets to my name. I withdrew ..."